Wednesday, February 13, 2013

Brought to you by....

When asked, some people might posit that Judaism is "all about Gd." 
Why, then, is there no mention of Gd in Megillat Esther? 


We have just finished reading about the story of Yetziat Mitzraim, the exodus from Egypt, in which Gd tells Moshe multiple times that he has hardened Pharaoh's heart. Gd plays an integral and obvious role in the story of Egypt. On the contrary, there is no mention of Gd in Megillat Esther. These two stories are read at similar times in the Jewish calendar -- why does it make sense to have these two huge miraculous stories with conflicting portrayals of Gd? 

Purim shows us that as humans, we too have a role in the creation and execution of miracles. The timeliness of the stories of Purim and Yetziat Mizraim show us that miracles can be instituted by Gd and can also be instituted by humans and  made possible by Gd. Gd is the reason that we are able to create miracles for ourselves.


In advertising form, we would say this: 
The Miracle of Egypt: Brought to you by Gd
The Purim Miracle: Brought to you by Esther and Mordechai, made possible by Gd

Monday, February 11, 2013

Queen Esther Fan Club



Happy Adar!!
So I actually am a huge Queen Esther fan. I mean besides for the fact that she kept strong to Jewish halacha and values while she was Queen, she also kept her nationality a secret for 5 years, put up with Achashveroshes shananagans, and saved the entire Jewish people from destruction! How cool is she??

Purim is a very fascinating holiday. On the outside it may seem like it's just a day of fun but in truth it's said to be the holiest day of the year. The Vilna Gaon explains that the full name of Yom Kippur is Yom Hakipurim, meaning "teh day like Purim." If Yom Kippur is like Purim, it means that Purim is even greater than Yom Kippur! Brings Purim to a whole new light, doesn't it?
There are so many life changing lessons we can learn from Purim and this one is about none other than Queen Esther :).



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Friday, February 8, 2013

Giving to Love


What is love? How do we cultivate it? In a fairly roundabout way, we catch a glimpse into a little-known secret from this week's Parsha.

The Pasuk tells us "When you see your donkey of the person you hate struggling under a load" then you shall surely help him(23:5).  What is the Torah trying to do by helping our enemies? Does it think that our enemy will like us more if we help?

In a strange way, it might be the opposite. The Zohar tells us that the word Ahavah, meaning to love, has the root "hav", to give. Many people consider this to mean we give to someone and they will love us. This, as before, is not the meaning of the lesson.

When we give we lov. Taking part of ourselves- be it through time, effort or money- and investing it in another person, not only expresses your love for them, it intesifies it. When we help our enemy. besdies his appreciation, we too begin to love them more. 

The Mishna in Avos tells us "aquire for yourself a friend". Why aquire? will he want to be your friend once you shower him with gifts. Actually, it may mean YOU will be his friend afterwards. 

Monday, February 4, 2013

How to Make Lemonade

You all know the famous saying: "When life hands you lemons, make lemonade." 
I know that this quote is very cliche and overused, but it's actually so true!
Life isn't easy. We all have challenges that we go through. Like lemons, these challenges can make our lives really sour.
But I don't want to have a sour life!How can I make my life sweet??
Here's the (not so) secret answer: Make lemonade! Pour in tons of water and sugar (and red food coloring if you're going for pink lemonade). 
The secret is that you can't get rid of the lemons, but you can sweeten it.

Matthew Jeffers is a Beth Tfiloh graduate in Baltimore. Matthew teaches us that the only disability in life is a bad attitude. Basically meaning, pass the sugar :)

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Friday, February 1, 2013

Hello! My Name is G-d


Welcome to Parshat Yitro! One of the two places in the Torah where we're told about the Jewish people receiving the 10 Commandments.
People don't always question the 10 commandments considering that they're pretty fundamental principles of faith. But if there's anything to learn about Judaism, it's that we're a religion of questioning. So here's a Question...
Statement #1 of the Big Ten is: I am Hashem your G-d who took you out of Egypt. 
Now, t's really nice that G-d is introducing Himself to us from the get-go, but why is "the G-d who took you out of Egypt" the phrase He uses to describe Himself?  It seems to me that He's forgetting something from the top of His resume! How about: "I am Hashem your G-d, the CREATOR OF THE UNIVERSE!"  I would say that bringing the world into existence is a teensy bit more significant than saving a measly little nation from the bondage of slavery. G-d chooses instead to refer to Himself as the one who took us out of Egypt?! Really?! It's like your mom introducing herself as the one who drove carpool today instead of saying I'm the one who carried you for 9 months, gave birth to you, and have been dealing with the consequences of raising you ever since. So why isn't G-d going all out to sell Himself here?
Answer is.... drumroll please....that actually, G-d IS going all out -- and is doing so in a way that's far far better than calling Himself the Creator of the Universe.
Here's why:
The problem with referring to Himself as the Creator of the Universe is that G-d's goal in giving us the Torah is to build a relationship with us. (You should feel pretty awesome about that -- you basically got a marriage proposal from G-d).  Just like you build a strong relationship off of what you have in common, the problem with G-d introducing Himself as the Creator of the Universe is that when it comes to the creation of the world, WE WEREN'T THERE!
G-d wants us to know how much He cares about us, that He went through unbelievable measures to save us, and so "G-d who took you out of Egypt" is much more personal and is more important to our relationship than anything else -- even the creation of the world. (In case you were wondering why we seem to talk about leaving Egypt all the time, even in kiddush and on holidays, this may be part of the reason why).
But you know what's REALLY cool? G-d taking us out of Egypt ALSO shows His power as G-d, and that makes it an even better introduction.
1. It proves He created the world. (Only the One who created nature would be capable of  breaking all its laws through the 10 plagues and then would be successfully able to put the laws of nature back together again afterwards).
2. It proves that G-d is involved in the world, and didn't just abandon us after creation. (There's a lot of divine involvement in the story of the Exodus. Only a G-d who is actually involved in the world could specifically cast a plague on Egyptians and not the Jews when they were all so closely intermingled).
3. It proves that G-d is fair. (When the Egyptians drowned in the sea, they didn't all die the same way -- they died according to how evil they were. The ones who were not as bad had a quick death where they drowned in the water like heavy lead, whereas the really evil ones drowned like straw that takes a torturously long time to sink). 
At second glance, G-d's introduction is deep stuff. It confirms His power as an involved and just Creator of the world, who is choosing to build a relationship with us... His Jewish people.
Now that's pretty awesome. 
Nice to meet you, G-d. I'm glad to be on Your team.

Spiritual Rejevenation


“Who can express in words what Shabbos has meant to the Jews throughout the generations?

At week’s end, the galus Jew trudges wearily home, bearing in his heart the incessant pain and the burdens of his downtrodden people. Nevertheless, even as he winds his way along the narrow paths of the ghetto, his heart is filled with joyous anticipation, for he knows that the unique beauty and sanctity of the Shabbos will soon encompass him and that its magnificent blessings will soon descend upon his home.

As his wife lights the Shabbos candles, the Jew is aware that these lights usher in an aura of shalom bayis; peace and serenity will quickly permeate his home. His Shabbos table radiates joy and happiness and is set as for a king. On this day his soul rejoices, and as a man reborn, he raises his voice in song.

This is the island of spiritual strength amidst the turbulent sea of exile. This is his Shabbos – sacred day of rest, and never-ending source of spiritual rejuvenation.”

-Rav Zechariah Fendel : Seasons of Splendor


Thursday, January 31, 2013